Helping Your Teen Deal with a Move


A move is difficult enough for most of us, but even more so for a teen who is already experiencing his or her age-related issues. Add on a move, and their life just became a whole lot more complicated. Leaving behind friends, moving to a new school and a new neighborhood is especially hard on this age group. But with these tips on adjusting to a new school, help with making new friends and getting to know their new neighborhood will help them transition a little more easily.

Suggest They Buy a Journal

Or if you think it will be accepted, purchase one for them. A “moving journal” is a great place for your son or daughter to express how they’re feeling about this major change. It’s also a way for them to capture the moment, add in pictures of their friends, neighborhood, and home.

Get Their Input on the Move

If you’re still looking for that perfect house, ask the teenagers in your family for their input.

Share the Moving Details

Once you’ve decided on a home, get details and share them with your family. Once you’ve moved, giving your son or daughter a project to work on.

Help Them Research Their New Community

Suggest they research their new city or town. Ask them to find specific information that will be relevant to your family; where is the local recreation facility or what is the name of the ball team and when is registration?

Buy Them a Scrapbook

So they can have friends, teachers or coaches write a note and provide e-mail addresses, birthdays, etc., so they can stay in touch.

Have Your Teen with You When You Register Them for School

Suggest you take a tour of the new school. Research clubs and teams that they can join and if you’re moving before the school year begins, sign them up for a summer club or team so when they do begin school, they will already recognize some friendly faces.

Ask Your Teen How They’d Like to Say Goodbye to Their Friends

Do they want a party or would they rather have a weekend get-together with a few friends? Find out, then help them plan it.

Suggest They Put Together a Moving Kit

The kit can contain magazines, books, games, things to keep them entertained on the way to the new home.

Ask Them to Pack an Essentials Kit

This kit can include essential items they’ll need for the first few days in their new home; clothes, books, personal things they can’t live without.

Give Them a List of Tasks to Complete

Tasks such as packing their room, helping out with younger siblings, helping in organizing a garage sale—whatever needs doing around the house will make them feel like part of the move. Providing a task list to each member of the family, no matter what their age, helps them feel like they’re contributing to the move.

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